Choosing a photographer can feel surprisingly overwhelming.
There are so many styles, prices, and portfolios out there that it’s easy to start thinking they all do the same thing.
But the truth is, photography isn’t just about the camera. It’s about how you feel in front of it.
......It’s not just about liking the photos
Of course you want to love someone’s work. But more importantly, you want to ask:
Do these photos feel real?
Can I imagine myself in them?
Do the people look relaxed or posed?
Because the best photos usually come when you forget you’re being photographed.
Style matters more than you think
Photographers all shoot differently:
Some are very posed and structured
Some are documentary and natural
Some are a mix of both
My approach is very much centred around real moments, movement, connection, and personality over perfect posing.
You should feel comfortable with your photographer
This is the part people underestimate.
If you feel awkward, your photos will show it.
A good session should feel like:
- gentle guidance, not pressure
- space to just be yourself
- a relaxed experience, not a performance
Questions to ask before booking
- Do you shoot candid moments or posed sessions?
- How do you help people feel relaxed?
- What happens if my kids don’t cooperate?
The right photographer isn’t just someone with a nice portfolio. it’s someone who can make you feel comfortable enough to be in it.
